Articles by Gary Roe
When We Feel Paralyzed in Grief…
Loss stuns the hearts. At times, we can feel paralyzed. Today's post, taken from my latest book, Aftermath, talks about how this grief paralysis can weave its way into our lives... FROM THE GRIEVING HEART: I feel frozen. Stuck. Paralyzed. The world is moving, but I’m...
When Details Complicate our Grief
Life is full of details. After a loss, the seem to multiply exponentially. Soon, we can be frantically treading water in the middle of an ocean of "must do's." The following post is adapted from my recent book for those who are experiencing the loss of a spouse or...
Making Holiday Decisions with a Broken Heart
After the holidays, I ran into Chris and Karen in the grocery store. They seemed to be moving in slow motion, shuffling their feet and staring blankly ahead. I was almost on top of them before they noticed me. They looked exhausted. Chris said, “When Karen’s mom...
When Holidays Hurt…
Holidays can hurt. Christmas can be hard, especially when we're missing someone. And we're all missing someone. Today's article is adapted from the recently released Comfort for the Grieving Spouse's Heart. I hope you find it comforting and encouraging as you walk...
The Backstory Behind My New Book, Aftermath
A few days ago, my newest book, Aftermath: Picking Up the Pieces After a Suicide, was officially released. I wanted to share a little of the backstory of this book with you. If statistics are correct, most of you reading this have either experienced a suicide death or...
When You’re Missing Someone for Thanksgiving
Ah, Thanksgiving. Festive décor. Tantalizing food and drink. Family gatherings. Fun and smiles all around. Expressions of gratitude everywhere. Underneath the warm hugs and smiling faces, many of us carry wounded hearts. We’re thankful to be with those we love, but...
When Grief is Making You Crazy
Grief can drive us crazy, or so it seems. This is especially true when the hoilday season is approaching. The following is adapted from the Book Excellence Award Winner, Teen Grief: Caring for the Grieving Teenage Heart. Whether or not you have teens, I think your...
When Life and Loss Put Your Heart in Danger
Today's post is adapted from my recent book, Difference Maker. Whether your loss is fresh, years back there, or somewhere in the middle, I believe you can make a profound difference in this hurting, grieving world - even if you feel like a mess. Read on and see what...
How Could This Happen?
When loss strikes, sooner or later our hearts ask some version of "How could this happen?" In fact, most of us end up asking this question again and again - weeks, months, or even years later. Though the following post is taken from my new book for those who have lost...
When Money Complicates Our Grief
Financial issues are naturally stressful. So is loss. Put the two together, and the pressure can be overwhelming and frustrating. Though the following post is taken from my new book for those who have lost a life partner, I'm certain you'll be able to relate to some...
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